Опасность социальных сетей: если ваш ребенок начал сидеть в Вконтакте, Одноклассниках и Facebook



В последние годы дети все активнее пользуются интернетом и помимо пользы мы сталкиваемся с интернет-угрозами и с проблемой интернет-зависимости. Особенно остро стоит вопрос безопасности/небезопасности пользования социальными сетями, где в первую очередь, ярко проявляется тема незащищенности ребенка от нежелательных знакомств и всевозможных угроз в интернете.

В данной статье мы попробуем взглянуть на вопрос опасности социальных сетей для детей (подростков и детей младшего школьного возраста). Светлана Нефедкина , психолог-консультант, рассказывает о влиянии социальных сетей на наших детей  и о том, как должны вести себя родители.

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Если ваш ребенок начал пользоваться социальными сетями, такими как, Вконтакте, Одноклассники и Facebook, важно в первую очередь установить очень надежный, сложный пароль и менять его два-три раза в месяц. Второй момент — настройки конфиденциальности: ограничить доступ к страничке («только для друзей», «закрытый аккаунт»), к фотографиям, чтобы быть уверенным в том, что с ребенком общаются только знакомые, реальные люди (родственники, друзья, одноклассники). Помним о том, что разрешено пользоваться социальными сетями с 13 лет, хотя статистика показывает. Что год от года процент пользователей интернетом — детей более младшего возраста растет год от года.

Важно отслеживать активность своих детей в интернете, что порой является трудностью для родителей: часто дети в наше время являются более «продвинутыми» пользователями, чем родители. Запрещать ребенку пользоваться социальными сетями бесполезно — запретный плод сладок, как мы знаем. Поэтому важно родителям возглавить процесс пользования социальными сетями. Каким образом это можно сделать? Путем жесткого авторитарного контроля, когда родитель сам открывает страничку и читает переписку ребенка, можно подорвать доверие вашего ребенка и ранить его собственным недоверием. Поэтому очень важно, договориться с ним заранее (перед тем, как регистрируется) о способе контроля. Бывает, дети не возражают, чтобы родители знали пароль их учетной записи, добавляют родителя в друзья, тогда — нету сложностей контролировать ситуацию. Важно так строить отношения с ребенком, чтобы он чувствовал что вы — попутчики, что то, что вы делаете, это из заботы о нем, для обеспечения безопасности.

Можно воспользоваться программой «Родительского контроля», которая, например предлагается программным обеспечением Windows 7. Эта программа помогает родителям отследить, на какие вредоносные сайты заходит ребенок, ведь социальные сети — не единственное рисковое место. Очень полезные советы для родителей по защите детей от угроз социальных сетей можно найти на сайте «Microsoft Центр безопасности».

Также, можно ограничить для детей временной доступ в интернет (особенно актуально, так как большинство пользуются смартфонами для того, чтобы зайти в интернет). Это делается путем заключения соглашения между вами и ребенком, а если оно не достижимо, тогда путем подключения интернета, только в определенное время, на определенное количество времени.

Не устану повторять, самое главное – поддерживать доверительные отношения с ребенком, общаться с ним. Общение онлайн, это замена, суррогат реального эмоционального диалога. Так что, если ребенка сильно тянет к общению в сети, написанию комментариев, следует задуматься чего ребенку не хватает в эмоциональном плане. Невозможно избежать встречи ребенка с интернетом, поэтому важно заранее рассказать ему о том, с чем можно там столкнуться. Если ребенку 10-12 лет, то лучше всего начинать «исследование» интернета вдвоем.

 

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