Магия маминого слова или мама-терапия



Магия маминого слова

Я очень люблю моменты, когда узнаю — то, что я делаю интуитивно, оказывается имеет под собой научную основу, исследования, доказательства. Это помогает мне в роли матери или жены или женщины.
Недавно я прочла главу из книги О. Валяевой «Предназначение быть мамой», где говорилось про магию маминого слова, про эксперимент, который провели в Англии:
«Мамы болеющих ребятишек каждую ночь проводили простой ритуал. После того, как ребенок уснул, они дожидались активной фазы сна – это где-то минут через пятнадцать. А потом говорили ребенку простые слова:
«Я люблю тебя. Я горжусь тобой. Я очень рада, что ты мой сын. Ты самый лучший сын для меня».
Текст примерно такой – для всех одинаковый.
И сравнивали этих ребятишек с другими – с аналогичными диагнозами, но мамы которых ничего им не нашептывали в ночи. Малыши, получающие мамины ночные признания в любви, выздоравливали гораздо быстрее. Вот такая материнская магия.»

Я время от времени пользуюсь этим приемом сама, по наитию. Говорю моим спящим сокровищам, как много они для меня значат, прошу простить меня, если вдруг днем что-то пошло не так, (естественно за свои ошибки я извиняюсь и очно, глядя в глаза, обнимая и целуя), рассказываю им, какие они хорошие и много-много чего еще, что наполняет мое материнское сердце.

магия маминого слова

А каково было мое удивление, когда я узнала, что это запатентованный метод психотерапии Бориса Зиновьевича Драпкина. Он один из самых известных детских психиатров и психотерапевтов, удостоенный звания «Почетный профессор психотерапии». Его метод отработан и запатентован, признан Всероссийским обществом детских психиатров, одобрен Минздравом.

Метод основан на том, что что между маленьким ребенком и его матерью существует очень тесная эмоциональная связь, которая закладывается чисто биологически, на стадиях беременности и кормления грудью.

Борис Зиновьевич считает, что голос матери становится чем-то вроде внутреннего голоса маленького ребенка, поэтому должен воздействовать на него гораздо сильнее любого дяди-психотерапевта, экстрасенса или даже гипнотизера. Особенно если этот мамин голос транслирует маленькому человеку то, в чем он больше всего нуждается – материнскую любовь и чувство защищенности.

Базовая программа метода «Магия маминого слова» состоит из четырех основных блоков:

Эти слова будут полезны любому ребенку, даже самому  здоровому и счастливому!

1 блок
Витамин материнской любви.

С помощью этих слов мама изливает свою любовь на ребенка:
«Я тебя очень-очень сильно люблю. Ты самое дорогое и родное, что у меня есть. Ты моя родная частичка. Я и папа тебя очень сильно любим. Я очень рада, что ты есть».

2 блок
Установка на физическое здоровье.

При легких недомоганиях одна эта «мама-терапия» может излечить без всяких лекарств:
«Ты сильный, здоровый, красивый ребенок, мой мальчик (девочка). Ты хорошо кушаешь и поэтому быстро растешь и развиваешься. У тебя крепкие, здоровые сердечко, грудка, животик. Ты легко и красиво двигаешься. Ты закаленный, редко и мало болеешь».

3 блок
Установка на нервно-психическое здоровье, нормальное психическое развитие.

«Ты спокойный мальчик (девочка). У тебя хорошие крепкие нервы. Ты терпеливый, ты добрый, ты общительный. Ты умный. У тебя хорошо развивается головка. Ты все хорошо понимаешь и запоминаешь. У тебя всегда хорошее настроение, и ты любишь улыбаться. Ты хорошо спишь. Ты легко и быстро засыпаешь, ты видишь только хорошие добрые сны. Ты хорошо отдыхаешь, когда спишь. У тебя хорошо и быстро развивается речь».

4 блок - отражает народную мудрость.

Издревле мама брала больного ребенка, прижимала к себе и своей внутренней силой очищала его от недуга: «Отдай мне свою болезнь!»
«Я забираю и выбрасываю твою болезнь и твои трудности. (Далее мама называет конкретные проблемы ребенка.)
Я забираю и выбрасываю твой плохой сон (если ребенок плохо спит).
Я забираю и выбрасываю твои страшные сны.»

магия маминого слова

И завершается сеанс тем же, чем и начался, – сигналом любви. Мать подтверждает свою общность с сыном или дочерью, естественность и нерушимость их связи. Ребенок может быть спокоен: он защищен, мама с ним, она его любит. Вот такая она — «магия маминого слова«!

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Малыши, получающие мамины ночные признания в любви, выздоравливали гораздо быстрее.Базовая программа методики Драпкина состоит из четырех основных блоков:
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