Тяжело со старшей



Я не умею играть, но очень стараюсь обычно, делаю над собой усилие и иду развлекать дочку. Выдумываю игры, занятия, поделки. Может быть мне и не хватает творчества и индивидуальности в играх, но я стараюсь совершенствоваться.

А сейчас апатия какая-то, сил нет после работы ни на что. Могу дочке айпад дать с мультиками, чтобы тупо отдохнуть. Упрекаю себя за это, ведь дочь не виновата, что я беременна, а качественного времени я ей стала значительно меньше уделять.

Как у вас, девочки? Находите силы на занятия со старшими? Где черпаете вдохновение и задумки?

 

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  1. оо,какая знакомая ситуация!!!!у меня когда во вторую берем.был токсикоз,я просто не могла себя от кровати отодрать,дочка по 2 часа смотрела лунтика… временами меня спасал детский сад, но из-за частых болезнях доча часто была на мне. Вы знаете я тоже не очень люблю играть во всякие ролевые игры, и более того я просто ненавижу вырезать и лепить. просто ужас как не люблю это. видимо меня саму в детстве не научили,у меня никогда ничего не получается,хоть по книжкам хоть нет. иногда бывает настроение сделать новогоднюю подделку или осеннюю, но это редко,пара раз в год)))тоже раньше совесть мучила,а сейчас я смирилась) нашла для себя то что я люблю. например слушать музыку классическую, и детей стараюсь приобщать. включу доче а она для меня выступает, а я лежу) а вообще знаете, у ленивых мам много детей)ну хотя бы больше одного. когда у вас младший родится и подрастет вы поймете всю выгоду двоих детей. Они чаще всего занимают друг друга. Я уже например не представляю чем заниматься весь день наедине с двухлеткой. А так старшая братику все время игры находит) а что касается творчества, можно отдать в кружок какой-нибудь, сейчас этого полно! ну не научу я ребенка рисовать, а профессиональный педагог научит)

  2. Кстати, вот вам отличные варианты «чем занять ребенка» если вам необходимо личное время, а ребенок дома.
    — сделать домик из стульев и одеял
    — достать старые игрушки которые ребенок давно не видел
    — обновить в детской уголок для игр. я например недавно дочке освободила две полочки на стеллаже, сказав что теперь там двухэтажный дом,мы его обустроили мебелью из подручных средств и ребенка почти неделю не слышно не видно было))
    — еще у дочки после просмотра серий мультиков «доктор плюшева» открылось вдохновение на игру в доктора, она теперь в ванной сидит целыми днями и лечит свои игрушки. причем тоже подручными средствами)специально мы ей ничего не покупали.

    • Спасибо! Про полочки и дом идея супер! Сразу вспомнила себя в детстве. Надо действительно попробовать

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