Вопрос психологу : «Почему у ребенка разное поведение в садике и дома?»



Сегодня совместно с психологами  Таллиннского центра семейных отношений Мариной Максимовой и Златой Макеевой мы постаралась ответить на довольно интересный вопрос от нашей читательницы.

Марианна (сыну 1,2 года):  « В детском садике проводится одно интересное задание. Воспитательница ставит корзинку с игрушками на центр комнаты и просит детей подойти и взять по одной игрушке. Все детки тут же ползут к игрушкам и и хватают их, в то время как мой сын сначала смотрит на других, как те берут игрушки, потом смотрит на игрушки и только уже потом берет их.  Почему так? Может ли это означать, что он чего-то боится?

Марина Максимова:  «Дорогая Марианна,  не думаю, что в описанной Вами ситуации можно говорить о страхе. Поведение Вашего сына совершенно нормально. Может быть, Вашему малышу просто нужно больше времени на осмысление, на то, чтобы понять задание воспитательницы. А когда ребёнок не понимает, чего именно от него хотят, то он обычно смотрит на то, как действуют другие дети, и только потом повторяет их поведение.»

Злата Макеева: «Такое поведение говорит о предусмотрительности и осторожности ребёнка. Есть детки, которые сразу включаются в игры, есть, которым нравится осмотреться и только потом действовать. По-видимому, Вашему ребёнку присуща осторожность, что так же является нормой развития в таком возрасте.»

Марианна: «Еще одна проблема, с которой приходится сталкиваться – это его поведение. В присутствии чужих людей или находясь в садике, он ведет себя очень примерно, но как только оказывается дома, начинается просто ужас. Ребенок капризничает, шумит и не хочет слушаться.»

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Марина Максимова:  «По поводу разницы в поведении в садике и дома.Возможно, в садике присутствие других детей утомляет Вашего сына, требует от него много душевных сил. А дома, в привычной обстановке, наступает «реакция» -малыш расслабляется, капризничает, потому что пребывание в садике его утомило. Он просто устал, не в силах справиться с собой, а внешне это проявляется как капризы и непослушание.

Нужно также учитывать следующее. В садике время ребёнка структурируют опытные воспитатели, существует чёткий режим, к которому привыкает ребёнок. А дома может быть непредсказуемая обстановка, зависящая от многих случайностей. Вполне возможно, что капризы возникают как реакция на такую обстановку – ребёнок просто не знает, как себя вести. Не стоит волноваться, Марианна. Когда малыш привыкнет к посещению садика, адаптируется, его поведение станет более ровным.»

Злата Макеева: » Достаточно часто поведение ребёнка дома , особенно с мамой, отличается от поведения в садике. В какой то степени, это является нормой социального  развития ребёнка. Такое поведение ребёнка может сигнализировать о каком  то дискомфорте, испытываем ребёнком или может быть возможностью привлечь внимание. Возможно Вашего внимания ему недостаточно. В этом возрате дети очень сильно привязаны с маме. Есть вероятность, что таким поведением Ваш ребенок расслабляется и разряжается в безопасной для него обстановке. Он чувствует себя на своей территории и может играть по своим правилам.

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