Как избавиться от утренних капризов в садике?



А мы продолжаем отвечать на ваши вопросы. Сегодня мы рассмотрим проблему утренних капризов в садике. На вопросы нашей читательницы отвечает психолог Таллиннского центра семейных отношений Марина Максимова.

« Как избавиться от утренних капризов в садике? Вот уже на протяжении нескольких месяцев ребенок каждое утро плачет в раздевалке садика. Категорически отказывается меня отпускать. Но после в группе и до самого вечера поведение нормальное.

«Так же ребенок боится ходить на дополнительные занятия и кружки без меня. Постоянно плачет. Как ей объяснить или убедить не бояться ходить одной?»

«Слова «не хочу и не буду», как с ними бороться? Екатерина(дочке 4 года)

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Дорогая Екатерина, все дети  разные, и далеко не всем посещение садика даётся легко. Понимаю, что Вам это доставляет определённые трудности, но лучше принять поведение Вашего ребёнка таким, какое оно есть.

Екатерина, в целях прояснения ситуации хотелось бы задать Вам один  вопрос.Постарайтесь вспомнить — не было ли такого, что вы неожиданно, без предупреждения оставляли дочь одну, на попечение других людей – няни, бабушки?Может быть, поэтому она и боится отпускать Вас, несмотря на то, что Вы расстаётесь только до вечера?Может быть, Вашей дочке кажется, что Вы исчезнете надолго, как это уже было однажды?Достаточно одного такого случая, чтобы в ребёнке сформировался страх оставатьсябез мамы, а каждое прощание с ней будет восприниматься болезненно.Поэтому и дополнительные занятия и кружки не приносят дочке радости – ведь это означает прежде всего разлуку с Вами.

Для того, чтобы ребёнок спокойно отпускал Вас, у него должно сформироваться стабильное ощущение Вашей поддержки. Если этого чувства нет, то ребёнок будет«цепляться» за маму. Следует учитывать также то, что восприятие времени у ребёнка и у взрослого человека очень различаются. То, что для взрослого — короткий период времени, ребёнку кажется вечностью. Вспомните своё детство, как Вы скучали и грустили, ожидая маму в садике или дома.

Как бороться со словами «не хочу и не буду»?

Прежде всего важно понять, почему и в каких ситуациях возникают эти слова.Постарайтесь понять, от чего конкретно отказывается Ваша дочка.Борьба в данном случае ни к чему хорошему не приведёт.Настраивайтесь на диалог, на общение, на взаимопонимание.Чувствуется, что дочка очень привязана к Вам и хочет проводить с Вами вместе больше времени. Может быть, стоит организовать вашу жизнь таким образом, чтобы больше времени проводить с дочкой вдвоём?

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