Детские капризы. Есть ли выход?



Наверняка каждый человек, даже никогда не имевший детей, видел, как капризничают маленькие дети. Как бы мы ни любили своих детей, приходится признать — порой они придумывают самые изощренные способы, чтобы получить от родителей желаемое. Прекрасный пример тому – истерика в супермаркете, где папа наверняка купит конфету, потому что ему станет стыдно перед другими покупателями.

Что же такое детские капризы? Откуда они берутся и что означают? Для начала немножко видоизменим вопрос и поставим его так: отчего дети капризничают? Послушаем ответ опытного психолога Таллиннского центра семейных отношений  Златы Макеевой:

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Когда ребенок такой маленький можно попытаться предотвратить истерику в самом начале, используя для этого «отвлекающие маневры». «Смотри, какой котенок» или «Смотри, как птичка летит» на маленьких детей такое действует почти безотказно. Переключить внимание ребенка можно также какой-нибудь интересной игрой или его любимым занятием.Но когда истерика уже началась, будьте более терпеливыми. Очень часто ребёнок выбирает такой способ поведения, зная, что добъётся своего, особенно, если уже добивался. Чем больше Вы вокруг него бегаете и переживаете в этот момент – тем продолжительнее будет «концерт». Самое верное средство в этом случае – не обращать внимания на истерику и не поддаваться. Как говориться, « нет зрителя, нет и истерики» . А если реакции не следует никакой, то со временем истерики будут происходить все реже и реже.

Не надо кричать на ребенка или наказывать его как во время, так и после истерики. Этим ситуацию можно только усугибить. При этом стоит признать, что для Вас будет действительно нелегко наблюдать за своим ребенком в состоянии истерики и при этом не броситься его успокаивать, но это необходимо! Вы можете отойти на небольшое расстояние, но быть в зоне видимости ребенка и «показать, что Вы в его игру играть не будете».

Если истерика произошла в общественном месте, (например, в магазине). То самым эффективным способом будет увести ребёнка из магазина. Потому что, в магазине много «зрителей», из –за чего истерика может усугубиться. Самое важное, чтобы Вы оставались спокойными, и понимали,что сейчасу ребёнка такой период, так он выражает своё негодование, но это пройдёт.Возможно, чтобы этот способ получения желаемого стазу не пройдёт, так как для ребёнка он сейчас является привычным. Но будьте уверенны, неподдаваясь на провокации ребёнка, этот способ ребёнок использовать прекратит. Хотя первое время ребенок возможно даже начнёт удваивать старания. Именно на этом этапе важно не поддаваться на провокации, сохранять самообладание. И тогда вы увидите, что истерика постепенно перестает быть для вашего ребенка инструментом воздействия на Вас.

И ещё один очень важный момент, о котором хочется сказать. Важно понимать из-за чего у ребёнка началась истерика. Первым делом обратите внимание и исключите первичные причины таких истерик, например,не хочется ли ребёнок спать, не голоден ли он , не переутомился или сильно возбудился , здоров ли. Если все эти причины исключены, то здесь мы говорим, так о способе получить желаемое. И тогда Ваше внимание к этой ситуации должно быть минимальным.

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